We tend to ignore our loved ones as they are trying to get our attention. We ignore them thinking it can't be because they are dead! Let me tell you, it is true you may be more aware of someone now that they are deceased, than you were when they were living. I believe that is because they have something to share with you. The majority of the time it is simply to say "I am here."
I am a medium. I have the dead communicate through me. Many of you have experienced that through a reading with me. Theresa Caputo is a medium, and she too communicates with the dead. You do not need to have Theresa or me be there with you to receive a message, or communicate a message to someone you loved who is no longer in the physical. Sit in silence and in a completely attentive state of being open, ask "What do you have for me?" Accept the first thing that comes to mind. Do not dismiss what you feel. Repeat out loud what you heard in your head or felt in your heart. Then thank them for coming through for you. The most important thing you can do, is communicate your love for those who have departed. I want to share a story with you of a woman who came to see me recently.
The woman walks in my door for an appointment. I recognized
her, but when she booked over the phone, I had no idea who she was. Names may sound familiar, but I have
read for so many people that it isn’t until I see their face, that I will
remember them. When she walked in
the room she seemed like a bull that someone was waving a red flag in front of
and she was about to charge.
Normally people are glad to be here, friendly, and loving. She acted like at any minute she was
going to pick up her keys and leave, but not without saying something really
ugly. That is how she walked in
the door! She sat down, turned on
her recorder, and said, “Let’s go.” She was ready to get on with it. What she needed as it was apparent to
me, was to realize that people were afraid to tell her the truth, or be close
to her because she gave off the energy of a bundle of dynamite, just waiting
for the fuse to be lit.
I knew however that was not what her numbers
said about her. When I looked at
her birthday, she was a double two, which means, loving and lovable. No doubt she wanted to talk about
relationships, because people who have “two” energy in their birthday, or name
are all about relationships, yet this woman was about as loveable as a
cactus. As she sat there waiting
for me to “perform” I noticed a male in spirit standing in the corner. He wasn’t going to step up at all, but
he was present. I let her review
with me one by one the men in her life, as she was simply interested in me
stepping into their energy and having me tell her who she was dating next, and
who was a better match for her.
I had not mentioned the man in spirit standing in the corner,
because it was clear to me that he was afraid of her. He was right.
She scared me too and she was non-approachable. In the course of the conversation, she
mentioned her late husband. I
said, I want to talk about him if you don’t mind. She said “Fine, talk!” “Well what is up with that?” “How
long has he been deceased?” I asked.
She said “Six years.” I wanted
to know, “Have you missed him?”
She said, “I have never grieved his death, because I found emails where
he had been in communication with another woman.” “I have never cried or missed
him, because I think he cheated on me.”
“He was diagnosed with a form of cancer that was inoperable right around
the time I found the emails, and then he died six months later.” “I took care of him the way I thought I
should, but I have been mad because even though he swore he never cheated on
me I think he did.” I thought “Oh
my gosh!” I knew that moment this
explained everything.
At that moment I began to weep because of the suffering and
pain that he had been through, but all she could focus on was how he was
unfaithful to her. Not only had
she tormented him through her anger the last six months of his life, but also
he has been dead 6 years, and she is still mad as hell at him. I said, “Honey, the reason you can’t
find a man and a relationship now, is because you still have a husband you have
not allowed to move on.” Your
anger and bitterness towards him, has held him here, waiting on you to forgive
him.” “He has not gone on to be
with God, because you are holding his spirit here by his need for you to
forgive him and let him go.” I
then clearly saw “Arkansas”, and I said, “He wants me to talk about
“Little Rock”. She said yes we went
to…and right before she said it, I got from him “Little Rock”, and she said
“Little Rock”. I said well he wants
you to think of how you felt in Little Rock. “Yes!” “I carry that picture of us
in Little Rock around with me.” She then reached for her phone and asked if I
would like to see it. I said “Of
course.” When I looked at the
picture, what I saw was a loving, kind wonderful man, with a generous spirit,
and big heart. She said “Yes that
is true, he was wonderful.” I said
well you need to tell him that he is wonderful, and that you loved him very
much and that you forgive him for what he may or may not have done. She said to me, “Where is he?” I said, “Well he has been standing in
the corner at the end of the sofa, because he was too afraid to approach
you. Finally the tears started to
flow, and she said “I do not want to hold him here, or do that to him.” Once the tears were flowing and she was
asking him to forgive her, for how horrible she had been, and she communicated
her love to him, her entire energy changed. I knew it would.
I knew that she was difficult for any man to love as she was, simply
because she was still angry with her deceased husband. Before our session was over, her
husband in spirit told me that he would help guide the perfect man for her to
her. He would act as a helper for
her.
I wish each of you reading
this could feel that release, and healing energy when forgiveness is given from
one to another, especially when the person who is asking for forgiveness is no
longer on this planet, but moved on into spirit.
I know that when Jesus walked the earth, his death was for
the purpose of “forgiveness”. God
knew that this would be and is such a problem for many of his children. We hold on to bitterness and anger, even
after our loved one is deceased.
Just because the physical body gives out, and the person is “dead” does
not mean that it is over. Talk to your loved one, and tell them what is on your heart. Allow them to speak to you. Sit and listen and see what comes through.
To book a session with Allyson Glynn you may reach her at area code: 985-662-1780
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